I was talking to an HR Pro recently and it struck me how negative they were about their organization and their HR shop in general! Don’t think this is going to be one of those blog posts about if you don’t like your job you should quit and follow your passion. I don’t believe in that bullshit, that’s how people lose their homes and their families. They get stupid. This is for my brothers and sisters who are running HR shops. You need to fire those folks. Really, I mean it. Get up from your desk, walk out to their desk and tell them they can go home — forever.
It’s one thing to have a bad day, it’s a completely other thing to have a bad career! You know exactly who I’m talking about. You see them everyday. It’s like watching Eeyore on steroids.
I try and figure folks out. I love asking, “Why you so mad?” Which just usually just makes them more mad, but it’s fun to ask. I have high HR self-esteem. I like what I do. I like what we do in HR. I truly believe that an HR shop in any organization can be the most valuable part of that organization if they have the right folks running it. Folks like me, with high HR self-esteem. Folks who don’t believe the bad press HR gets. Folks who don’t believe the haters. Folks who at their core, understand how attracting, finding and keeping the best talent in your industry is a true game changer.
It’s alright by me that operations, finance, marketing, etc. all think the same thing. They all think they’re the most important part of the organization. That’s Ok. I know. I know we (HR) is. Knowing this allows me to let them believe their little fairy tale because I know it’s important to keep them happy. So, I let them believe. Don’t tell them, please. ‘Belief’ is important for their continued satisfaction.
I’ll take the blame for when a bad leader turns another hire. I’ll throw myself on the sword when communicating out another policy change made by executives, but one in which they’ll gladly give me ‘credit’. I’ll let marketing take credit for the major sales increase, when I know it was my talent find that brought on the winning strategy to our organization. I’ll let finance take credit for millions of dollars in ‘savings’, when I know it was the changes to our work structure that allowed us to make those savings. Having high HR self-esteem does that.
I only ask one thing from my fellow HR leaders. The next time you make a hire in your HR shop, please make sure that person has high HR self-esteem. I can’t take anymore HR pros who don’t like what they do.