I hate that we are meant to feel that we should have our dream job. It’s drilled into our society at nausea from mass media, our celebrities, our teachers and spiritual leaders. It’s all basically complete bullshit, but we eat it up like it came directly from G*d.
It didn’t. Whichever G*d you believe in, she/he never said ‘Thou shalt have your dream job’, never.
Celebrities stand on award stages and tell our children to never give up their dreams, you can do whatever you want. No. No, they can’t. Let’s face it, Mr. Celebrity, you were given a gift, most people don’t have that same gift, so stop telling my kid they can be you.
I know this upsets some people. They love to live in a fantasy world that someday they stop working their 9 to 5 and start being a fairy princess. I hate to tell you this, but you won’t. Sorry, Billy, you’re an overweight short kid with bad eye sight and irrational fear of clouds. You won’t be the next NFL Hall of Fame quarterback. But you might be a really awesome Accountant, and that’s not a bad gig.
I don’t have my dream job.
I have a job I like a lot.
My dream job would be to make a ton of money managing and/or coaching a professional sports team. I would take basketball or baseball. I really think I would be happy with either.
I know that won’t ever work out for me, so I don’t spend much time really thinking about it. It would be stupid for me to do so. But that’s my ‘dream’.
If it’s my dream, shouldn’t I give up everything I have and chase it? Give up my well-paying, really good job. Give up my house. My kids college education. My retirement account. I mean this is MY dream!
Mr. Celebrity said I can reach my dreams. We all can. We just have to want it more. We just have to not give up striving for it.
I met a person last week who said he had his ‘dream job’. It was a good job, but he also told me he missed his kids, because his dream job made him travel a lot. He also said his dream job had him working harder than he ever had prior. The longer he talked, the longer it didn’t sounded like a dream job, and the more it sounded just like every other job.
The concept of dream jobs is bullshit. That’s okay. The sun will still come up tomorrow, even if you tell yourself I’ll never have my dream job. You’ll be alright. You can still have a really good, awesome life.
Be wary of someone telling you to chase your dream job.