I use to have this issue. I would come up with an idea. I really, really good idea! I would then work to make this idea a reality. I would spend a lot of time, energy and resources making this idea come to life. The work became more important than the idea.
Someone really smart would come along and want to change my work. It would frustrate me. It would anger me. I didn’t like them messing with my work.
I fell in love with the work. With the process.
The work and my processes became more important to me than the original idea. I was blind to see that those who were coming to me, to try and get me to change my work, were in love with my idea, but not in love with my work.
It took me along time to understand the value wasn’t in the work, it was in the idea. Anyone can do the work. The work can be done a number of different ways to get the same result. But the idea was the creation, the start. Without it, there wouldn’t be any work.
So many of the HR Pros I know have this same issue. We take great pride in our work, so much so, that we don’t allow others to come in and help make our ideas better. We don’t allow them to get on board and be a part of something special. Our pride, blinds us to see just maybe there might be even a better way to make our ideas become reality.
Fall in love with the idea. Don’t fall in love with the work.